You’re Too Old To Still Want A Thug

Posted by on Jul 14, 2008 in Relationships, Xilla Post | 1 comment

Today when you’re at lunch, walking through your local office park look around the eating area. I’ll bet you’ll see a woman reading a piece of urban lit, True to the Game 3, Bad Girlz 4 Life or any other novel written by someone fresh out of jail. Woman like thugs, d-boys and men with bullet holes or stab wounds...

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Raheem DeVaughn on Being A Father, Erykah Badu & SuperHead

Posted by on Jul 8, 2008 in Entertainment, Relationships, Xilla Post | 0 comments

A while back I had the chance to chat with Raheem DeVaughn  and he had  a lot to say about being a father, Erykah Badu & Superhead. On balancing being on the road and being a father. It’s stressful at time but mostly on his moms more than me. She ends up carrying a lot of the weight and dealing with the day to day issues...

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Singer Algebra On Heartbreak, Revenge & A Woman’s Worth

Posted by on Jul 7, 2008 in Entertainment, Relationships, Sexual Intellectuals, Xilla Post | 0 comments

I had the opportunity to sit down and chat with the wonderful Algebra on my weekly podcast called Captured by Blogxilla and we discussed a lot of things from her new album, to Essence fest to men and relationships. Like all of us, Algebra has been through a lot and she shared some of her wisdom on heartbreak, revenge , other people...

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Myspace Cheaters Exposed

Posted by on Jun 16, 2008 in FWNBTD, In Other News, Relationships, Sexual Intellectuals, Xilla Post | 0 comments

Location: The mean, mean eStreets of MySpace Ave. Ride or Die Biotch! Yes folks! Taymah goes undercover. To the heart of the World Wide Web of Pedophiliac Parasites. Objective: To catch an adult male engaging in improper and unsavory contact with a minor via MySpace. Strategy: To create a mock page of an underage, teenage girl and...

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30 Things I Wanted To Say Aloud

Posted by on Jun 12, 2008 in Life, Links, Relationships, Xilla Post | 1 comment

1. I never really liked you, I don’t even respect you as a man, you’re a sloppy second loving mother fucking snake… and I hope you die Honestly I think you’re Gay not that anything wrong w/ it b/c I’m cool w/ a few gays dudes but you need to come out the closet dog. I really don’t like you and...

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Dear Xilla, My My Myspace, I’m Not Number 1

Posted by on Jun 2, 2008 in Relationships, Xilla on, Xilla Post | 1 comment

Dear BlogXilla, I read a lot of your blogs and it seem like you give really good advice so I have a question for you. If I was your woman what number would I be on you friends list? I have been dating a guy for about 2 two years and I am ONLY number four on his list. Right now I feel like our relationship is at a cross roads and I am...

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Rihanna – Disturbia

Posted by on May 30, 2008 in Entertainment, Music, Relationships, Xilla Post | 0 comments

Rihanna – Disturbia <-Listen] via Thatgrapejuice The song is different, I might even consider liking it. I’m sure you’ll be hearing it in your local Urban clothing stores as you’re looking for the best price on goods made by little Asian kids in sweatshops. Speaking of shopping rumor has it Chris Brown dropped...

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I Can Order Chinese By Myself

Posted by on May 29, 2008 in Relationships, Urbanites, Xilla on, Xilla Post | 3 comments

There is an old adage which states that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Well I believe that a lot of females have forgotten that saying. But whose fault is it? The Mother’s for not teaching her daughter how to cook? The Daughter for not learning how to cook? or the Dad’s for walking out on the mother,...

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Rihanna Knows How To Turn Chris Brown On

Posted by on May 28, 2008 in Entertainment, Relationships, Sexual Intellectuals, Xilla Post | 2 comments

Rihanna, is a true sexual intellectual when asked about her sexy on stage apparel, which is a cross between video vixen and dominatrix, she replied: “I like to push the envelope sometimes. It depends on the mood and the occasion. “It’s always fun to take some home. Sometimes I get to do that.” Source Playing...

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A New Benchmark for Whores

Posted by on May 23, 2008 in Entertainment, Life, Nightlife, Rated Grown Up, Relationships, Urbanites, Xilla on, Xilla Post | 0 comments

50 Cent has a serious problem, he can’t ignore the small things. BET’s Rocsi had an opinion about his album and he calls her a hoe. Does she sell her cooch to the highest bidder? No!! He claims that she has slept with 4 people he knows. 4!! If 4 is the new benchmark for whoredom then I must be Bishop don Juan without the...

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Blog Court – Who Lies More, Men or Women?

Posted by on May 22, 2008 in Entertainment, Relationships, Sexual Intellectuals, Urbanites, Xilla Post | 0 comments

The R-Kelly case is full of lies and deception. The alleged victim is lying saying it’s not her, The defendant might be lying saying its not him and even may be cleared by a mole. Go figure! Now childhood friend of the alleged victim has identified her as the one in the tape. It made me wonder who is the better liar Men or Women?...

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Maxim Night Of The Freaks

Posted by on May 22, 2008 in Rated Grown Up, Relationships, Sexual Intellectuals, Xilla Post | 6 comments

Maxim’s Hot 100 Party Elise Neal is a looker, I mean it looks like she left her dress home and came in lingerie!! I’m not complaining I love it. But what I don’t love is the use of the word freaks “Shawty is a Freak…” It irks the hell out of me. You meet someone and they ask you how freaky are you....

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Usher Separated? How to Get Over A Failed Love

Posted by on May 22, 2008 in Relationships, Xilla Post | 1 comment

Wow I can’t say that I’m actually happy to be blogging about this, Usher is rumored to have filed for separation from his wife Tameka. Hey P.Diddy, I’m going to need for you to bag a bum chick so I can have someone to trash to make me feel better about myself. lol Just joking for all the people who read BlogXilla you...

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Jay-Z Signs Prenup With Beyonce

Posted by on May 19, 2008 in Entertainment, Relationships, Xilla Post | 3 comments

Rumor has it that Jigga and Beyonce have a prenuptial agreement that could result in a $25 million payday for Beyonce if she decided to Kick Him Out. The website Soulfulvibes.com reports “Beyonce (born Beyonce Knowles) has inked a prenup deal with her new husband Jay-Z (born Shawn Carter) that could pay the R&B diva up to...

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Walk With Me – Do You Really Want The Love Of Your Dreams

Posted by on May 16, 2008 in Relationships, Urbanites, Xilla Post | 0 comments

Poet Oscar Wilde once said, “In this world there are only two tragedies. One is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it. The last is much the worst; the last is a real tragedy!” I find that if you treat a woman like crap, they’ll love you. If you love them and give them your heart they’ll drag...

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The Official Cutty Buddy Obligations

Posted by on May 14, 2008 in Entertainment, Relationships, Sexual Intellectuals, Xilla Post | 0 comments

. [Audio:http://blogxilla.com/Audio/cuttybuddy.mp3] Mike Jones – Feat Lil Wayne, T-Pain & Twista ~ Cutty Buddy Mike Jones put out a song that I actually like!!! Yet, something deep in my heart and shallow in my pockets have prevented me from placing his picture on my website. Instead I placed the perfect picture what what...

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Protected: Xilla Mail – Vince Young Drunk & Topless

Posted by on May 12, 2008 in Pictures, Rumors, Xilla Post | Enter your password to view comments.

Vince Young was pissy drunk at a party. The source who sent the pictures claims that allegedly Vince was at a bar in TX when they all got super drunk and began taking off their clothes. Also at one point Vince stood in the middle of the floor with his eyes closed for about 5 minutes. Is that how the Ballers do it? It looks like a...

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Trey Songz – Safari Love [Say Whoa]

Posted by on May 12, 2008 in Entertainment, Music, Relationships, Sexual Intellectuals, Xilla Post | 0 comments

. [audio:http://blogxilla.com/Audio/trey.mp3] New Music From Trey Songz – Love Safari via BMF from what I’m hearing around the net is dude can sling the tool. [pause] I mean he pulled a group of college students on stage. They invited him back to their room and apparently the girls went around telling the world how...

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Pissed Off P*ssy – Written By The Infamous Lady T

Posted by on Mar 25, 2008 in Relationships, Xilla Post | 0 comments

hey folks I’m set to hit the road today, but I do have some interesting features for you. This fine lady in the picture above is not your avg lady. I could tell you about it or you could just read it from her mind. A Warning to the Ladies – Beware Unknown Celebrity Dicks… …or just appreciate the comedy. One thing is for...

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Chris Brown & Rihanna – Creep To Keep It Hot

Posted by on Mar 24, 2008 in Entertainment, Relationships, Sexual Intellectuals, Xilla Post | 0 comments

. Chris Brown is suffering from, I hate to say it, a case of Bitchassness. Over in the UK the only thing they wanted to know about was is he smelling Rihanna’s silky draws. He denied it, so much in fact that he banned all questions about the pop star. So the press stop interviewing him. Yet they were seen at the Kaberet Club in...

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