I read a lot of your blogs and it seem like you give really good advice so I have a question for you. If I was your woman what number would I be on you friends list? I have been dating a guy for about 2 two years and I am ONLY number four on his list. Right now I feel like our relationship is at a cross roads and I am not sure this is where I need to be. Am I wrong for taking that personally? Not that four is a bad number if you fall under very important people, but does that mean I am just not all that important in his life? what do you think?
Dear FOURida Evans,
It all depends on who is in front of you, I personally feel like their should be rules to the myspace top friends list. Should be concerned? On one hand it’s just myspace, but on the other IT IS myspace!
There is an old adage which states that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Well I believe that a lot of females have forgotten that saying. But whose fault is it? The Mother’s for not teaching her daughter how to cook? The Daughter for not learning how to cook? or the Dad’s for walking out on the mother, leaving the mother to work all day and not find time for her child?
Regardless of whose fault it is, I’m a bit perturb at the idea that 75% of females I’ve been with can’t or couldn’t cook. There was the one who could only boil chicken, the one who burned a hamburger and another who knew how to order the best of everything that delivered. I can ORDER CHINESE BY MY DAMN SELF!!
Learn to cook watch Rachel “I’m not a Muslim” Ray, scream BAM from the kitchen every now and then when you through some seasoning in a pot of stew. I want to smell the aroma of basil and 35 herbs and spices resonating from the kitchen area every once in a while. I get tired of the scent of MSG coming from a brown paper bag with a white plastic bag with a smile on the front. I have at least 400 liltte pieces of cardboard in my cabinet drawer from take out. A million menus and way too many packets of soy sauce in my BRROOWWNN PAaapperr BAaagggg!! I feel like DJ. Khalid or something.
Besides I don’t want to have to look Mr. Chan in the eye while he fumbles for my change in his pockets with hopes that I tell him to keep the change. Because I’m not going to tell him to keep the change b/c I’m going to have to see him again in a few days because my girl can’t cook!! SMCH!!!
50 Cent has a serious problem, he can’t ignore the small things. BET’s Rocsi had an opinion about his album and he calls her a hoe. Does she sell her cooch to the highest bidder? No!! He claims that she has slept with 4 people he knows. 4!!
I’m wondering which one of these classy women will be the first one to kiss all over our spokesperson for black people “Flavor Flav” I’ll admit this season does look like it’s going to be good .
I got a message recently from one of my readers. it goes.
How is it that a dude will eat tha goods, but not dish out any kisses? See, my dude left about 3 months ago n i have been kickin it hard with this dude i have known for years, our first encounter was in march and again recently….so I do not understand men sometimes so i need to know, why.
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I figured I could ask u this, as a Libra I know I can trust your advice. My boyfriend recently told me that he knows that my best friend’s boyfriend has cheated on her plenty of times, but made me promise not to tell. Now on one hand if it were me, I would DEFINITELY want to know, but on the other hand, he’s my boyfriend I don’t wanna betray his trust. So Xilla, what do I do? Do I betray my boyfriend and tell, or do I betray my best friend and not tell? Come on wit that supreme Libra mind : )
Signed, Lost In Love
Dear Lost in Love,
Your boyfriend did not do you any favor’s by putting you in this situation. Based on the fact that I don’t have a lot of information on how the Intel came about, I’m left to assume.