The Internet Killed The Art Of Trying To Holla
Last night my cousin Luke spoke to me from the grave. He appeared to me in a dream. Which is weird because we never really spoke much, while I was an adult. Luke was older than my mother, the head of his own household, but I alway thought he was cool. Ice cold. But what is does a kid say to a grown up that he would want to talk...
Read MoreDo You Pull Your Weight in Relationships?
Written by Ariana G. for BlogXilla.com When I think about relationships, I think of the word partnership. The 50/50, I scratch your back, you scratch mine, “if you keep it real with me, I keep it real with you” kind of deal. Now, I’m not referencing the sentimental, walk in the park and kiss me under the stars part of the...
Read MoreArguments In Relationships Can Be A Good Thing
Arguments in a relationship can be a good thing. Matter fact if it wasn’t for an argument I never would of started this blog and I can honestly say I don’t know where would I be in life? I remember first time I wrote a blog, I was sitting on one of my extra dining room chairs that my mother had given me when I moved out of...
Read MoreStop Giving It Up For VIP Access And A Couple Of Sips From My Bottle
The church girl versus the freaky girl which one is better? At first glance one might say its the freaky girl. She is the object of affection all rap videos, all movies and even commercials. The gallant prince risk life and limb to win the beautiful princess. Who just so happens to be a willing virgin with double d breast and long hair....
Read MoreThere Are No More Girlfriends, Just Situations & Friends With Benefits
There are no more girlfriends and boyfriends have been extinct since around the time that Snoop Dogg dropped his first album. A few years ago someone said you’re single unless you’re married and the whole idea of a relationship went poof. There are no more couples just people who love each other without titles. Everyone I...
Read MoreWhat If Cops Gave Tickets For Relationship Violations?
Written by Ron Brown For BlogXilla.com I have a tendency to drive beyond the speed limit when on the highway. I drive even faster when I am running late! For the most part, no harm, no foul, as I usually get to my destination as anticipated. But every now and then, the red and blue lights of a police cruiser appear in my rear view...
Read MoreDon’t Take Advice From Baby Mamas With No Prospect Of A Ring by @718_pen_artist
Written by Ariana G for BlogXilla.com The 20s is a critical time in any woman’s life. However, when you throw relationships into the equation, many people are quick to give you a laundry list of why you shouldn’t do it. Trust me, I should know. From the unwanted “You should date around and enjoy your life” speech to the...
Read MoreA Woman’s Burden: The Stray Dog Theory Of Keeping Love
I haven’t been able to write anything great lately. Every time I sit in front of the screen with the urge to write nothing comes out. It’s just hasn’t been working. Then while sitting in deep thought I began to wondering if women are responsible making sure their man remains faithful. A lot of women, some more bitter...
Read MoreThe Reason Those Other Girls Got Men And YOU DON’T
You can’t expect the same results as the person next to you when it comes to love because that person might be in a different lane than you. I see it all the time, a young girl is upset because the next chick has found love, while she’s still out here lonely on Friday night. Believe it or not there is a reason the big booty...
Read MoreMonkey Bars Are Good For Kids, Not Relationships: How To Move On
Written by Ron Brown For BlogXilla.com Most of the world does not find true love the first time out. A lot of people will never find it, but will never give up on the quest. This got me thinking about my past relationships and how I handled the transition from what was proven not to be bliss, to my next attempt at finding my Matrix...
Read More7 Amazing Steps To Having A Better Relationship
Everyone wants better. A better job, a better car, a better pair of shoes than the last ones you bought. We all want better. So today I’m going to tell you how to use my law of focus better. How to use the law of focus to help you be a better person inside your relationship. Because good women know they can never stop getting...
Read MoreInterracial Dating: Is Black Still Where It’s At? By @AdjoaHackman
Written by Adjoa Hackman for Married2TheBlog.com/BlogXilla.com For the past few years, I have observed something about black men: I don’t see them in relationships with black women. My male cousins would come home with their girlfriends and they were never women of color. Why is that? I have a few theories: Broken relationships with...
Read MoreThings You Can Never Say If You Want To Find Love
After I published my 4 Laws of Finding Love, I got a bunch of messages from women thanking me and letting me know how much they needed the information. So to help people even more I am going to focus on the Law of Change. In case you still haven’t read them, the law of change is as followed. If you want love, you must decide to...
Read MoreDating Men With Kids Is The New Black
Written by Ariana Gaillard for BlogXilla.com Dating is definitely not easy. When you consider the pool of men women have to choose from, men with kids aren’t necessarily top choice. However, if the guy happens to be a good one, the fact that he has a kid doesn’t become such a problem, if you know what you’re getting into. First,...
Read More5 Ways Men Win Arguments With Their Girlfriend
Written by Ron Brown for BlogXilla.com I am at home one day, getting ready for a long day of work ahead of me. My ritual of eating my breakfast and checking my social feeds were behind me–all that was left was to groom for the day. I walk into the bathroom, turn on the shower and then all of hell breaks loose! My girl decides...
Read MoreXilla’s One Night Stand: How To Find A Boyfriend – The Four Laws Of Love
Relationship blogger Xilla Valentine of Married2TheBlog.com and the “champion for good women” speaks at Xilla’s One Night Stand. If you ever wondered how to find a boyfriend or why you can’t find love then you need to listen to Xilla’s Four Laws Of Love. It’s all the information you will need in order...
Read MoreMy Advice To A Howard University Hottie Looking For Love
The following letter was written by one of the readers here on BlogXilla.com, looking for advice. Hi Xilla, I read your blog from time to time and the other night I came across your post titled “The Good Woman Grade: How Guys Decide to Make You Their Lady.” For the last few years I’ve mostly focused on myself and having fun. My...
Read MoreBig Sean: The Definition Of A Good Woman
I’ve refocused and now I’m on a mission to discover the exact definition of a good woman. I caught up with rapper Big Sean to get his opinion on the qualities of a good woman. His response might surprise you. Check it out out blow. “Somebody who is genuine. Someone who cares. Somebody who is pretty on the inside. A...
Read MoreIs That Nice Guy A Little Bitch Or The Man Of Your Dreams?
There is a saying that nice guys finish last, but I don’t think that’s the case. Mainly because nice guys get the GOOD women. Most good women want nice guys. Perfect example, stripper Maliah Michel posted a photo quote on Instagram that read, “I know you’re a nice guy, but you can be such a little...
Read MoreThe Good Woman Grade: How Guys Decide To Make You Their Lady
February is the month of lovers, but yet so many women hate this time of year because of Valentine’s Day. It’s the time of year where you’re forced to focus on the fact that you’re single and alone. When I think about it, it’s one of the only times women don’t like being single. If you’re...
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