5 Ways A Good Woman Can Become A Sexual Intellectual
Written by Robin Smith Specifically For BlogXilla.com In the recent blog post, Stop Giving It Up For VIP Access And A Couple Of Sips From My Bottle, the question was posed: which is better the freaky girl or the good girl? On the surface, it appears the freaky girl wins, but ultimately, the good girl actually does. With that said,...
Read MoreMaybe Woman Shouldn’t Have 100% Say In Abortion
Last week I read an article that blew my mind. So much so that after reading it I came to the conclusion that a woman shouldn’t have a 100% say in getting an abortion. Just writing makes my skin shiver but its’ how I feel. Please allow me to explain. Here is what happened. A couple hired a surrogate mother to have their...
Read MoreIs That Nice Guy A Little Bitch Or The Man Of Your Dreams?
There is a saying that nice guys finish last, but I don’t think that’s the case. Mainly because nice guys get the GOOD women. Most good women want nice guys. Perfect example, stripper Maliah Michel posted a photo quote on Instagram that read, “I know you’re a nice guy, but you can be such a little...
Read MoreThe Difference Between Making Love and Phucking!
All month Wale’s song Bad has been playing in my head. So when my friend, invited me to the DC rapper’s concert at Bowery Ballroom I was like “no doubt I’ll roll with you.” I had only planned to go home, cook and work on the completion of my book, The Blueprint For Sexual Intellectuals: Vol 1. The show was...
Read MoreSo The Whole Yellow #5 Thing Is True?
Not completely. Cosmopolitan gives you a random list of possibilities to sift through that could be the reason for a drop in your man’s sex drive. Neon-Colored Drinks: Animal testing has shown that brominated vegetable oil, a common ingredient in both citrus-flavored flavored sodas and electrolyte-replenishing drinks can cause...
Read MoreCool Story Babe, Now Go Make Me A Sandwich
There seems to be a new craze going on in the apparel world playing on the “Cool story, bro” phrase, but now that it’s hit a mainstream store like Walmart, people aren’t having it. The Frisky writes, In Vandalia, IL, Kayla Hyde shared with her Twitter followers her disgust over a black T-shirt in Walmart’s...
Read MoreSo, What Does The Election Mean For Your Vagina?
If you had any doubt who Beyoncé voted for yesterday, the “Take That Mitches” photo she posted should give you a clue. A main issue in this election was women’s health. Cosmo breaks down what President Obama’s win means for your vaginas. No matter your politics, ladies can take heart in the president’s support...
Read MoreIs There A Such Thing As “Thinking Like A Man”?
One of the first things that usually comes to mind when the topic of “thinking like a man” comes up is the ability to acquire a good amount of ass, with minimal feelings. Clarke of Madame Noire says women aren’t necessarily looking for Mr. Right, but are capable of “thinking like a man” too. I’m sure that...
Read More#EXCLUSIVE: @QParker112 Weighs In On Thick Girls Vs Skinny Girls This Cuffing Season
Here is another episode of Friends with Benefits featuring Yolie Monroe, Q Parker of 112 and myself. On this episode we discuss who is more likely to get cuffed this cuffing season. Slim chicks or thick chicks? Check it out and let us know who you riding for....
Read MoreDo Men Need To Be On The Lookout For Karma?
Remember Kanye said, “Until you have a daughter. That’s what I call karma”? Well, a writer at Madame Noire had a piece of her mind to give on the topic. I’ve always wondered how some of you can be so cold. How you can have a wife here, a mistress there, and 30 side chicks spread everywhere, yet tell someone that you...
Read MoreTiny Says You’ve Just Gotta Get Wild In The Bedroom!
Tiny isn’t afraid to please her man and that’s probably a big part of why she and T.I. have been together for so long. Here’s what she has to say about keeping the spice in the bedroom. You have to try new things and be open and talk about things that you’re interested in. You also have to talk about things that...
Read MoreWould You Get A Shot In Your G-Spot?
Would you get a $1,000 shot, if it promised months of heightened orgasms? Huff Post reports that chicks are getting injections for their G-spots… According to Fabulous magazine, many women on the West Coast are now flocking to their doctors to get the “G-Shot” for their G-spots. The so-called “lunchtime”...
Read MoreWhen Is Sex On The First Date Okay?
Is sex on the first date ever okay? Under what circumstances? Your Tango cites one exception to the rule. If you’re looking for a serious relationship and follow all the dating “rules” of waiting to have sex, you might find yourself having to open up emotionally during the early dates. By having sex early on, you...
Read MoreClueless Sex Toys
Oh, yeah. Alicia Silverstone from Clueless is peddling sex toys now! iAfrica reports, The Clueless actress – who is well known for her vegan diet and eco-friendly lifestyle – has recommended people purchase the Leaf Vibrator sex toy, which is inspired by the outdoors. “… Alicia – who describes herself as...
Read MoreThis Is Why You Should ‘Take Them Panties Off’
If you don’t go without panties, at least sometimes, you are missing out on life! You have not truly smelled the roses! Even Cosmo knows! Skipping your undies has practical advantages. First, you eliminate that dreaded wardrobe woe, visible panty lines. Second, you’ll never do an emergency load of laundry because you’ve run...
Read More6 Open Relationship Rules That Really Work
In the words of Smoke from Field Mob, “My Shawty… is f***ing other niggas and she f***ing me too.” Let me back up for a minute. I was dealing with this shorty, she wasn’t my girl or anything we were just f*cking! I call her up, take her out and have sex with her. This is what we did. The best part about it, is...
Read MoreOh, You Thought Spoons Were Just For The Kitchen?
Spoons can also help heat things up in the bathroom. Cosmopolitan gives a way you can use spoons to create a do-it-yourself sex toy. Chill metal spoons in the freezer for a couple of hours, and then glide them over each other’s skin. Place them against his lips, drag them down his throat and across his nipples and abs,...
Read MoreTrust Issues: Just Admit You’re A Dog
Okay, you might not be a “dog” per say, but sometimes we have to step back and take a look at ourselves when we’re looking for the cause of our problems. Madame Noire tells you to be real with yourself, because you just might be the reason for your trust issues. Whenever we talk about someone having trust issues, we...
Read MoreThe Good Pussy Grade: How Guys Rate Your Vagina
All pussy is not created equally, and I don’t think women understand that. Some pussies are prettier than others, some get wetter, some are warmer and they all taste different. Pussy is sort of like chinese food in the hood, the general tso’s chicken taste a lot better at Great Wall than it does, at Sun Ming Li’s...
Read MoreOrgasms Will Save Your Life!
They keep your stress levels down and your mood good, but orgasms are also linked to an increased life span and looking younger, according to a report posted to Your Tango. A 2002 report from a large British population of men said researchers found a 50 percent reduction in overall mortality in the group of men who said they had the...
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