The Internet Killed The Art Of Trying To Holla
Last night my cousin Luke spoke to me from the grave. He appeared to me in a dream. Which is weird because we never really spoke much, while I was an adult. Luke was older than my mother, the head of his own household, but I alway thought he was cool. Ice cold. But what is does a kid say to a grown up that he would want to talk...
Read MoreArguments In Relationships Can Be A Good Thing
Arguments in a relationship can be a good thing. Matter fact if it wasn’t for an argument I never would of started this blog and I can honestly say I don’t know where would I be in life? I remember first time I wrote a blog, I was sitting on one of my extra dining room chairs that my mother had given me when I moved out of...
Read MoreStop Giving It Up For VIP Access And A Couple Of Sips From My Bottle
The church girl versus the freaky girl which one is better? At first glance one might say its the freaky girl. She is the object of affection all rap videos, all movies and even commercials. The gallant prince risk life and limb to win the beautiful princess. Who just so happens to be a willing virgin with double d breast and long hair....
Read MoreThere Are No More Girlfriends, Just Situations & Friends With Benefits
There are no more girlfriends and boyfriends have been extinct since around the time that Snoop Dogg dropped his first album. A few years ago someone said you’re single unless you’re married and the whole idea of a relationship went poof. There are no more couples just people who love each other without titles. Everyone I...
Read MoreA Woman’s Burden: The Stray Dog Theory Of Keeping Love
I haven’t been able to write anything great lately. Every time I sit in front of the screen with the urge to write nothing comes out. It’s just hasn’t been working. Then while sitting in deep thought I began to wondering if women are responsible making sure their man remains faithful. A lot of women, some more bitter...
Read MoreThe Reason Those Other Girls Got Men And YOU DON’T
You can’t expect the same results as the person next to you when it comes to love because that person might be in a different lane than you. I see it all the time, a young girl is upset because the next chick has found love, while she’s still out here lonely on Friday night. Believe it or not there is a reason the big booty...
Read MoreKaylin Garcia Strips Down For Rolling Out Magazine
The good folks of Rolling Out Magazine teased their photo shoot with the sexy Kaylin Garcia. Nice....
Read MoreMaybe Woman Shouldn’t Have 100% Say In Abortion
Last week I read an article that blew my mind. So much so that after reading it I came to the conclusion that a woman shouldn’t have a 100% say in getting an abortion. Just writing makes my skin shiver but its’ how I feel. Please allow me to explain. Here is what happened. A couple hired a surrogate mother to have their...
Read More7 Amazing Steps To Having A Better Relationship
Everyone wants better. A better job, a better car, a better pair of shoes than the last ones you bought. We all want better. So today I’m going to tell you how to use my law of focus better. How to use the law of focus to help you be a better person inside your relationship. Because good women know they can never stop getting...
Read MoreThe Good Woman Of The Week: Lola Monroe
Today’s good woman of the week goes to Lola Monroe. As some of you know I believe that regardless of what you’ve been through in your past, you can find, attract and fall in love with the person of your dreams. Lola has done just that. She is known for her dope rhymes, crafty ability to ride a beat, and hard core style that...
Read MoreThings You Can Never Say If You Want To Find Love
After I published my 4 Laws of Finding Love, I got a bunch of messages from women thanking me and letting me know how much they needed the information. So to help people even more I am going to focus on the Law of Change. In case you still haven’t read them, the law of change is as followed. If you want love, you must decide to...
Read MoreXilla’s One Night Stand: How To Find A Boyfriend – The Four Laws Of Love
Relationship blogger Xilla Valentine of Married2TheBlog.com and the “champion for good women” speaks at Xilla’s One Night Stand. If you ever wondered how to find a boyfriend or why you can’t find love then you need to listen to Xilla’s Four Laws Of Love. It’s all the information you will need in order...
Read MoreMy Advice To A Howard University Hottie Looking For Love
The following letter was written by one of the readers here on BlogXilla.com, looking for advice. Hi Xilla, I read your blog from time to time and the other night I came across your post titled “The Good Woman Grade: How Guys Decide to Make You Their Lady.” For the last few years I’ve mostly focused on myself and having fun. My...
Read MoreBig Sean: The Definition Of A Good Woman
I’ve refocused and now I’m on a mission to discover the exact definition of a good woman. I caught up with rapper Big Sean to get his opinion on the qualities of a good woman. His response might surprise you. Check it out out blow. “Somebody who is genuine. Someone who cares. Somebody who is pretty on the inside. A...
Read MoreKendrick Lamar f. Drake – Poetic Justice (VIDEO)
Kendrick Lamar proves that you can make a dope video without the person featured on the song being able to make it to the shoot location. In comes Poetic Justice where Kendrick proves our chocolate women are still sexy and to be desired. Watch the video and let me know what you think. It displays the type of love someone might die for....
Read MoreIs That Nice Guy A Little Bitch Or The Man Of Your Dreams?
There is a saying that nice guys finish last, but I don’t think that’s the case. Mainly because nice guys get the GOOD women. Most good women want nice guys. Perfect example, stripper Maliah Michel posted a photo quote on Instagram that read, “I know you’re a nice guy, but you can be such a little...
Read MoreMiguel – Candles In The Sun (VIDEO)
Miguel drops the visuals for his latest song Candles In The Sun. I can’t help but think that it’s about time someone made a song like this. Great video, better song and a long time overdue. It’s been great watching Miguel find his lane as an artist. Dude is doing his thing right now and he’s one of the most down...
Read MoreChase N Cashe – I’m The Man 2.0
Chase and Cashe drops straight fire with his latest track. I’m The Man 2.0. Take a listen. Ladies a good woman knows the importance of a man who thinks highly of himself....
Read MoreThe Good Woman Grade: How Guys Decide To Make You Their Lady
February is the month of lovers, but yet so many women hate this time of year because of Valentine’s Day. It’s the time of year where you’re forced to focus on the fact that you’re single and alone. When I think about it, it’s one of the only times women don’t like being single. If you’re...
Read MorePusha T f. Rick Ross – Millions (VIDEO)
Pusha T drops the visuals to one of my favorite songs off his mixtape Wrath Of Caine but one thing has me perplexed. When Pusha asks “how we still f*ck the same hoes” I can’t help but think, he can’t be serious. He has to know the answer to that. Hoes are hoes. They let everyone hit. They don’t...
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