Relationship blogger Xilla Valentine of Married2TheBlog.com and the “champion for good women” speaks at Xilla’s One Night Stand. If you ever wondered how to find a boyfriend or why you can’t find love then you need to listen to Xilla’s Four Laws Of Love. It’s all the information you will need in order to find, attract and fall in love with the person of your dreams.
If you can’t watch the video now the laws of love are listed below.
The First law of love is the law of change: One thing I notice is that if you want love you must decide to change your thinking. My law of change, is as followed, if you want to change your love life, you must change the way you think. If you believe there are no good men out there you won’t find good man.
The second law of love is the law of responsibility: If you want to change your love life you have to accept the responsibility for your love life and take control of the situations you find yourself in. Your thoughts, your feelings and your actions all determine if you will find love or not. There is a certain type of woman that a man will bring home to his mother, and there is another type of woman that a man just brings home. Be the woman you want to be.
The third law of love is the love of belief. Your reality is based on what you believe. If you believe you’re not worth bringing home to mother, you’ll never find someone who will bring you home to their mother. Our beliefs hold us back, think about it. We weren’t born with these beliefs we picked them up as we got older. WebMD reports that the average toddler hears the word no 400 times a day, so its no wonder we think we would never find a good person to love us. The law of belief is that what you believe is totally in your control.
The forth law of love is the law of focus. One you begin to focus on the lover your want, it will be come crystal clear when they walk into your life. If you don’t have a concrete vision of the type of person you want then how will you find that person? Focus on what you want that person to look like, how you want them to treat you, and all of the things you want this person to provide for you. Physically, emotionally and mentally. Feel how all of that makes you feel. When you do this, you’ll know exactly when the one walks into your life and you’ll never settle for anything less.