The Good Woman Grade: How Guys Decide To Make You Their Lady
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February is the month of lovers, but yet so many women hate this time of year because of Valentine’s Day. It’s the time of year where you’re forced to focus on the fact that you’re single and alone. When I think about it, it’s one of the only times women don’t like being single. If you’re wondering “how do I find love” or “How do I get a boyfriend?” Then I’ll give you a little bit of insight into the questions guys ask when we grade a females on being a good woman. Good enough to be our official lady.
- Do you make us laugh: We love to laugh, just as much as women like to laugh. So, if we’re spending most of our time making you laugh, then who is going to make us laugh? One thing is certain, you better make sure it’s you making your man laugh before big booty Betty starts cracking jokes.
- Do you make us aspire to be better: There is great power in women, but sadly many of them don’t know they possess such powers. For a good woman knows she has the power to move men to greatness. She has ways to make him want to be better, she does things that make him do better. Ask yourself what are you doing to inspire him?
- Do you encourage our dreams? Men need a woman who fuels their need to be and do better. She knows which buttons to push to help us get up off our ass. She’s there to support us when we take step towards our goals and at the end of the day she’s out biggest cheerleader.
- Force us to go outside of our comfort zone. She is like a mother bird that pushes its young hatchling out of the nest. We ask ourself ‘does she push us to soar.’ Ladies if your man is comfortable working at FedEx his whole life, then you’re not motivating him to his greatest ability. With that said if you feel like you’ve tried your hardest, you’re either doing it wrong or with a guy who has maxed out on his potential. Regardless then it will be time to run.
- How does she take care of home. If you ever lived with someone then you know exactly what this entails. Are you both eating every night. Are the bills getting paid, is she running the house like the boss she is? She doesn’t have to do the cleaning, but she has better make sure the housekeeper comes and goes in a timely manner.
- Representation of us how she dresses, carries herself, etc. – I need a lady. A woman that presents herself in a such a manor that people are impressed when they see me walk in a room with her. I need a girl who represents me and everything I’m about.
- Does she make you proud enough to bring home to momma? I have a saying, there are women you take home to momma and there are women you just take home. It takes a special type of woman for a man to want to introduce her to his mother. To do that you have to be special.
- Is she a sexual intellectual? I hate the saying lady in the streets and a freak in the bed, but it does fit what we want. To see this theory most people need only to look at our grand mother. Do you have 5 or more aunts and uncles? Mmmhmmm! Wonder why grand daddy was so smooth, he was getting it in.
- Is she smart? No matter how sexy she might be, if a woman is not intelligent she could never be the perfect woman. Case it point, when I was 19 I met a girl who told me she was 18 years old but only in the 9th grade. She said she started school late, and stayed back because her parents kept moving. My dumb self believed her. I called her dumb often, but it turns out she was only 15 in the 9th grade. The logic of idiots. She later got fat, because she kept eating McDonalds so she could get thicker. She was tired of being skinny. Needless to say a perfect woman must be educated.
- Does she do the little things? Does she let him lead, allow him to be the man, does she contribute to the cause and isn’t just along for the ride. Does she do the little thing that make us melt inside. If a woman doesn’t do these small things it could be the end of a beautiful thing. Because it’s always the small things that means the most. We must learn the beauty of simplicity.
How to you rank up? 1-3, 3-5 , 5-8 or 8-10 If you got more than 5 you’re a good woman but you could be better. Let me know where you need help at and we can work on getting you better. Feel free to email me. You can find that on my twitter.