Is That Nice Guy A Little Bitch Or The Man Of Your Dreams?
There is a saying that nice guys finish last, but I don’t think that’s the case. Mainly because nice guys get the GOOD women. Most good women want nice guys. Perfect example, stripper Maliah Michel posted a photo quote on Instagram that read, “I know you’re a nice guy, but you can be such a little bitch.”
While I can understand her frustration, I am smart enough to know that quotes like that are the reason good women get dogged out by good guys turned bad. Notice I didn’t say nice. Mainly because men seem to think that being nice means being weak. Being a push over, letting their woman do whatever she want to do them. Most of you women know that’s not the case.
Correct me if I’m wrong but you want a man who is nice to you, but who isn’t a push over. You want a man who respects you enough to politely check you when you’re out of line. A man who is strong enough to make you better, you want a man whose work ethic inspires you to be the best you, you can be, but who is still aware enough to understand that you deserve more attention than football, the playoffs, his boys and video games.
Those are just a few examples of how a good woman wants to be treated by a nice guy. As a father of two daughters, who’ll start dating in 2 or 3 years, I’ve made it my mission to be able to teach women how to identify the good guys. The ones who want to be in a relationship and not just hit it and quit it before they move on to your friend or that chick with the busted weave.
Women should never forget there are two types of nice guys. The ones who are ready to settle down, and the ones who aren’t ready to settle down.
How many of you ever thought, this guy is perfect he just doesn’t want to commit? He’s not ready. This is because still has things to do before he stops enjoying the benefits of being single. He won’t treat you bad, he just won’t commit to being in a relationship. You may never see another girl, but that doesn’t mean she isn’t there, but I digress.
When a guy isn’t ready to settle down he’ll sell a woman every excuse to justify his sleeping around. Let’s just be friends, lets not have titles. Classifying things makes everything more complicated. All of those excuses are just a way for us men to say I only want to sleep with you, and not give you all the benefits of being my woman. Sadly, many women have begun to believe this to be true.
Then there are the nice guys who are ready to settle down. They might seem like they are harder to find, but that’s only because some women fail to separate the different types of nice guys. Also good women snatch these guys up when they finally find one.
They know, having a toothbrush at your guy’s house is a greater luxury than automatic windows, a heated steering wheel and those retractable rear view mirrors. Good women understand the importance of having a drawer at his house and the security to know that he claims you as his own, and won’t settle for the games played by lesser women.
So date a nice guy, but don’t walk over him. Understand that nice guys are strong, nice guys can protect you and make you feel secure.
I don’t think there is anything wrong with casual sex. It’s a great weapon and tool, but it start to hinder things if you are looking for a real relationship. So if a nice guy is pushing lets just have sex theories he’s not be ready to settle down. Whether or not you try to make him settle down is up to you.
So what is your next move? Are you ready for a nice guy? Do you think nice guys are push overs? Tell me about the time a “nice guy” was just too soft for you deal with?
A good woman knows she’s there to support her man when he take step towards his goals. She knows she has to be our biggest cheerleader.
— BlogXilla (@BlogXilla) February 19, 2013