The Real Reason Men Love Being Called Daddy
One of my Twitter followers made reference to an old blog I wrote called 5 Reason Why men like being called daddy. She was responding to a guy who tweeted “if one more girl call me daddy during sex I am gonna call her daughter and ruin everything.”
Childish logic if you ask me. Being called daddy by a woman is the ultimate form of flattery and respect in a relationship. Just as the term you ain’t my daddy one of the worst things a man can hear in his relationship.
In my classic blog I wrote:
When it comes to sex, just call me “Daddy Long Stroke”. I’ll admit it, I love it when my lady calls me daddy during sex, and I never really had a problem getting any of my women to call me daddy during sex. But, I have noticed a lot of women say they don’t understand the phenomenon. So allow me to ‘splain it to you. Here are 3 reasons men like to be called daddy during sex.
The James Evans Factor: Think about dads of old. Back when being a father was common in the urban community and not something to be rewarded. I think power, respect, compentence. When I think of fathers I think of a man who takes care of home. A man who protects her so good its sexy. James Evans was the type of father who you knew would beat that ass. He had a look that would send chills up your spine. So when my lady calls me daddy I feel like superman like right at that moment while I’ll all in her ribs with the manxilla. I’m her protector, I’m her super man.
Kiss My Boo Boo: Ever girl needs their daddy. So when my lady calls me daddy she’s telling me she needs me. She needs me to kiss her to make her feel better, she’s telling me she needs me to drive the manxilla deeper inside of her, to make all of her troubles go away.
All Girls Say It: Another one of the main reasons men like to be called daddy is because all girls have said this at one time or another. I think y’all know what that phrase is: “You ain’t my daddy” well now that’s not what you said last night. I know for me, once a girl says that to me, it is now my goal to make her not only call me daddy, but to make her scream it. Once she screams daddy ain’t much else she can say after that.
Which brings me to this, I was dealing with this girl who used to call me daddy during regular conversation. If we were walking down Madison ave she would say something like “you like how I look in these pumps daddy?” or “daddy can I suck you off in the movies?” all this was verbal forplay for the things we did.
I won’t speak for all men but I like being called daddy because it let’s me know I am doing something right. It let’s me know that the woman I am with has given herself to me. That I am her king, her man and that I hold the number one spot in her heart.
No one should be thinking about their parents during love making. This is a different sort of daddy. I’ve come across a few women who object to calling a dude daddy, to them I say give in. It’s about submitting, it’s about kissing it and making every thing better. As I previously wrote “ So when my lady calls me daddy she’s telling me she needs me. She needs me to kiss her to make her feel better, she’s telling me she needs me to drive the manxilla deeper inside of her, to make all of her troubles go away.” So when you hear a man objecting to being called Daddy it’s probably because he has daddy issues himself.
But to each their own. What are your thoughts on the term Daddy?