5 Ways A Man Must Dominate His Woman During Sex
Boyz II Men might make love to you, but when I do the grown up my goal is complete domination. I like rough sex, so I’m not trying to tickle the kitty, I’m trying to beat the pussy up! With that said there comes a time when a man MUST dominate his woman.
Not because he’s an alpha man or has something to prove, but rather because the woman wants to be dominated. Almost every woman I know likes to be bossed around in the bedroom. Just last week, one of my women told me she likes having sex better than head, adding there is “Something about feeling dominated.”
Ask Men Magazine said being dominated is one of women’s 10 most requested fantasies. So, I’ve come up with 5 ways to totally dominate a woman.
–Call her dirty names – I never disrespect a woman I am with, by calling her out of her name, unless it’s during sex. I say things like “Take this dick b*tch,” while I’m thrusting the ManXilla deep inside her vagina with the intention of making her feel it in her stomach. As she moans with joy, I’ll assert my dominance by saying, “shut up! Stop running from my dick, slut” as she inches back from the force of my steady thrusting.
–Choke her - I have big hands, so I like to wrap them around my woman’s neck and give her a little choke to catch her off guard. My favorite maneuver is when I kiss her on her cheek while rubbing her face, before I slide my huge hand down to her neck, place it around her throat and squeeze hard as I can for a few seconds before letting up a little, but still keeping enough force so she can’t move her neck. All while sliding my thick perfect size penis inside her, fast and deep, as many times as I can. Over and over again. I call that the Colt 45 because when it comes to making her come “it works every time.”
–Hit her. I believe that domination requires a little pain. Now I’m not advocating for men to Ike Turner their women, but a love tap on her cheek goes a long way. Believe me when I say smacking her ass is a must. Aggressive sex is only good when I rough her up a little bit by smacking her booty and pulling her hair. Hard. I’ll rip her weave out if I have to, just to prove I am in control. Don’t worry, I’ll pay for the next hair appointment. Also, if she’s sucking me off, best believe I am going to smack her in the face with the ManXilla, a couple of times. #XillaShrug
–Spit on her. I’ve actually got mixed reviews about this one but it’s domination and the woman I’m with has no say. I will spit on her pussy and shove my dick in, while holding her down. Spit can play a vital part of great sex. Lick her face, lick her twat, spit on her tit, or if you have to, spit on her face and in her mouth. She freaky right? Find out.
–Use props. All out domination cannot be limited, so I’m never afraid to use toys. I’ll blindfold her with a scarf, shirt or whatever I can find. I’ll gag her with her panties. Now that’s sexy! I’ll shove whatever phallic sex toy she has in her and fuck her with it how I want to. When you add those factors with hard sex aimed at pleasing the bottom of her vagina walls. It’s passion, pain and pleasure.
Domination is all about a woman’s need to feel owned! Doing the tips I have provided are a “win-win female sex fantasy scenario that allows her to fully indulge her femininity, while still espousing the merits of feminism.” Have you been dominated? Do you like to be dominated? When was the last time you had aggressive rough sex? Let’s converse.
Written by, Xilla. The CEO of BlogXilla.com/M2TB.com. He has been featured in XXL, The Source, Essence, Playboy, LA Times and is considered the premiere sex blogger in the industry. He is widely known as the Sexual Intellectual by many of his peers and fans. Follow him on twitter @BlogXilla